That smile you know, at the right person, that tells you they're okay. They're a nice well intentioned citizen looking out for the stranger.
And the enigmatic second look, because he is the white man. Just a casual glance at a suitable interval of complacent oblivion. Inscrutably ambiguous. They might move mountains for your family, they might leave you dead and your children in the custody of sociopathic child and family services.
It's not enough to die. And our poor post-inquisition hispanics god bless their simple corrupt souls, it's not enough to extract the respect of the next one from the utmost despair of the last. It's more as the Jews Understand.
You must destroy the souls of their children. They don't even have to know.